The balance between pain and pleasure can be heaven and hell at the same time with a top or switchpartner with good communication skills.
My role is 80% bottom
1 Absolutely not! 2 Turnoff 3 Indifferent 4 Interesting 5 Turnon 6 Favorite Turnon
Intensity: A Light B Moderate C Heavy
Duration: I Hours II Overnight III Weekends IV Vacation V 24/7
Pacing: >Slow >>Faster >>>Quick
Experienced the scene: As a Top: T, As a bottom: b (left side of the table)
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TOP's Turn Ons |
BOTTOM's Turn Ons
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| SM TB |
6AB>
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6AB>
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| Master/slave |
2-3
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2-3
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| Nibbling & Biting B |
3
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3
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| Using hands TB |
6
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6
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| Cock&Ball Play TB |
6B>
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5B>
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| Tit Torture TB |
6B>
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6B>
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| Abrasion TB |
5
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5
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| Ice TB |
4
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4
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| Electricity TB |
4
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4
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| Face Slapping T |
6
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2-3
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| Verbal Abuse B |
3-4
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2-3
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| Spanking, Whipping, Flogging, Caning T |
3
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2-3
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| Scarification/cutting |
1
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1
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| Needle sex T |
2
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1
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| Shaving (HEAD!) |
5
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4
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| Catheters/sounds B |
3
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1
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| Piss, Watersports TB |
4-5
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4-5
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| Spits & Gobs TB |
4-5
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5
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| Mud, Oil, Stinking |
3
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3
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| Disipline TB |
3-4
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2-3
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| Daddy / son |
2-3
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2-3
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| Cowboy/ horse |
2-3
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2-3
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| Dog, Puppy Play |
2-3
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2-3
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| Servant |
2-3
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2-3
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| Foot Licking |
2-3
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2-3
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| Boot Licking TB |
3
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4
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| Military Games |
3
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2
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| Cum Control |
4
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4
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| Other Interests |
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The Colours in this Checklist is based upon Traditional Gay Leathermen's Hanky Codes:
http://mindprod.com/ggloss/hanky.html
Hanky Code-information also from the appendix to Trevor Jacques 1993. "On the Safe Edge".
This Fetish, Bondage, SM, Assplay and Safety Checklist can help you identify turnons-/offs, limits, and find common ground for play. It can be used by bottoms and slaves, as well by tops and masters. Versatiles can fill out preferences both as Top and bottom, as these interests can be very different. For each subject, just write a number from one to six (1-6) to indicate your preference. You can also write additional information or nuances, as well as symbols for Intensity, Duration and Pacing (BD/SM), if you like. A T og a B to the left of the table, means that you have experienced the scene either as a Top or as a Bottom.
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